So how have things been going for the past 2 weeks. Well, first of all I can't get rid of him! No really he wont go home. Someone forgot to inform me that my home was now his home. It is fun getting to see Joey so much and I still have some time to myself. But it is weird that he doesn't leave to go to another house, he doesn't go hang out somewhere else... just upstairs to do his homework.
As most of you know Joey and I chose not to live together before marriage. Looking back I am not sure if I still like this decision. I wouldn't have changed anything. But I might suggest my friends try living with the person before say "yes" to the rest of your life! So what am I saying. I love being married don't get me wrong, but there sure are a lot of things you learn when you actually live with the person. Little irritants that were not noticeable before living together. Like I cannot for the life of my remember to turn off the bathroom light when I leave it... and my wonderful husband Joey picked up this new habit of not putting the seat down even after daily reminders. As I think about things I know that neither one of us do these little things to irritate the other but we are both so use to living by ourselves, being able to clean up as we please and not having to be accounted for.
So, what do I love about marriage? I love just hanging out with Joey. Not even talking but just sitting in the same room. I love that I know he is coming home to spend time with me, and that I will get to see him everyday. The strangest thing that I have enjoyed is waking up early just to make him a lunch. Now most people know that I am a night owl and barely function in the morning so this is a huge thing for me. But I love being there for Joey whether he realizes my effort or not.
I know this is just the beginning of an extremely long wonderful marriage. I look forward to all the memories we have and will make with one another.
